• emotions,  trauma

    Rape, Recovery, and Rebirth

      [Trigger warning; rape. I suppose that goes without saying] This post is quite long, and is about my recent experience with rape, trauma, and moving through it. It’s a hard thing to write about, both because it’s a vulnerable, and relatively fresh wound for me, and because I’ve struggled to find the right tone.  A tone that feels true and honest, that captures what happened, how it felt, and how it’s changed and impacted me. A tone that respects that being raped is a horrible and awful thing that no one should have to go through, but that also…

  • clearing,  guided meditation,  sex

    Who’s Hanging Out In You?

    Cast your mind back, if you will, to the people you’ve slept with. I’m sure some faces make you smile, maybe you wonder what they’re up to these days, and I’m sure others make you cringe, or maybe even grimace.…

  • emotions,  self inquiry,  spirituality

    Reflections

    I’ve been thinking a lot about reflections recently.  What is being reflected back and how deep am I willing to hold the mirror.  How deeply will I let the reflection in, and will I let it change me.  We get…